Gen Z here. I don't mean to intrude, so feel free to tell me if this isn't the place. I'm trying to understand the millennial experience better, because from the outside it looks like the generation got sorted very differently depending on when and where you started. A lot of Gen Z talks about a K-shaped economy, where some people keep climbing and others stay stuck. It seems like millennials lived a version of that first.
I, and many of my Gen Z peers, have the impression that some people graduated into the 2008 crash and never really got their careers off the ground, or lost years of earnings and compounding they never made back. Others graduated a few years earlier or later, or got into tech or finance during a boom, and did very well. Among Gen Z there is some resentment for these, as getting into white collar work back then also seems to have been a lot easier than it is now, with the rise of AI, Trumponomics etc.
So I'd love to hear from people on different sides of this, so:
If you graduated or started your career around 2008-2012, what did it actually look like for you? Do you feel like you've caught up, or is it still with you?
If you did well (tech, Silicon Valley, finance, whatever), do you feel like you dodged something? Is there a "we survived 2008, we must be the best" mindset, or is the guilt or awareness more about how lucky the timing was? How much do you think class background mattered, compared to timing? Did family money or a safety net make the difference between riding out 2008 and getting flattened by it? Is there tension inside the generation between the people who "made it" and the people who didn't? Or does it mostly go unspoken? Do you think younger people describe the millennial experience accurately, or are we flattening it too much?
I'm not trying to start a generational fight. I'd just rather hear it from people who lived it than piece it together from Instagram Reels lol. Thank you!!