r/Fauxmoi • u/LunaLore_ • 8h ago
TRIGGER WARNING Actress Charithra Chandran shows support for young woman raped at Cornell University: “It is never surprising to me how low men will stoop to hurt women. Certain men don't even consider women as people but possessions and objects for their benefit.”
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u/LunaLore_ 8h ago
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u/heartisallwehave Send me your address so i can visit you and explain my passions 1h ago
Any woman these men have harmed in the meantime is on their hands too.
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u/rmay14444 8h ago
Just preface I am a man, but I hope these men burn for their crimes.
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u/misimalu 8h ago edited 8h ago
I am a woman. They won’t. They never do. And it’ll happen again and again and again and again and again and again and again
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u/MeetKey6629 8h ago
Once the public attention dies down, which it will, because it always does, there won’t be pressure for any consequences. It’s the same song and dance every single time, sadly.
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u/The-Cosmic-Ghost 8h ago
The only justice in these situations is vigilante justice, but then most of the time the one doling it out gets a much longer sentence then the perps ever would
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u/barefootcuntessa_ 7h ago
Have you heard of the rapist Brock Allen Turner who now just goes by Allen Turner?
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u/Happy-Fennel5 8h ago
Everything will be turned around on the victim. It always is. People love to excuse rapists’ behavior and turn it around on what the girl/woman should have done differently. This is a particularly disturbing case, but I’m sure Cornell has many more rapists walking around unpunished. All colleges do (except for women’s colleges). I invite you and men you know who are angered by this to actually do something about it. You can start here: contact Cornell President Kotlikoff at (607) 255-5201 or via email at [president@cornell.edu](mailto:president@cornell.edu) and tell him what you think. Be vocal with the men and boys in your life who joke and degrade and humiliate girls and women. Don’t let shitty comments and behaviors go.
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u/zanoske00 8h ago
People need to remember women couldn't vote less than 100 years ago. They couldn't have bank accounts, credit cards. This was all done to keep them in check and under a man's control.
Equality and justice are young embers that need to be protected at all costs. There are no magic or invisible systems or barriers preventing people from committing evil at any time.
Do not take your safety for granted. There is nothing protecting you.
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u/CutieBoBootie 8h ago
Hell even in in like the 70s women couldn't make their own back accounts without a man present with them. My foster dad's father died and his mother had to have her brothers go with her to the bank so she could open an account under her name.
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u/LilMissy1246 7h ago
Also, if I’m right, men were basically allowed to abuse their wives until like, 1993 (including rape). That’s pretty twisted. Women need to be taken more seriously when it comes to abuse. A lot of abusers/rapists get away with barely any time and it’s so fucking sad. That’s why women are so scared to speak up. There was even this story a while back (not sure if true as I read it in a comment) that a woman/girl was raped and went to officers to report it but they also raped her.
Don’t know the names of the people involved but it disgusted me.
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u/BadgleyMischka women’s wrongs activist 2h ago
It was totally legal to rape your wife up until 1996 in Finland.
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u/woahoutrageous_ 7h ago
The fact they posted it in a group chat and non of the other men reported them is terrifying
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u/innocentsalad his body was resisting the wheat 7h ago
They say “not all men” but when it came down to it it was all men
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u/BlondeBorednBaked 7h ago
Men will never undercut the power structures that benefit them to help women
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u/Alarming_Smoke_8841 8h ago
I have been so sick just thinking about this since this came up in the news cycle. Just terrifying, horrifying, vile 💔
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u/applesandbananananan Google lied to you. 8h ago
Same. Someone on threads (or was it here?) really put things in perspective when they said consensual sex with a partner starts getting uncomfortable after an hour or so straight. Two to three hours, and you're rubbed raw. I can't imagine the pain she was in after 7-8 fucking hours. These monsters need to pay.
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u/Left_Cod_7174 8h ago
Does anyone know Winston Lee's Korean name? He could be going by that to avoid public scrutiny
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u/AccusingGojo 7h ago
He's apparently in the Korean army now
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u/elloitsmeadele before we get married i gotta go fuck this guy 4h ago
some cornell students have said he’s been on campus but hasn’t been seen recently
koreans have been contacting the ROK military about him so his army status hasn’t been confirmed
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u/heartisallwehave Send me your address so i can visit you and explain my passions 1h ago
Lee Win-Hyung, iirc. (Not 100% sure though)
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u/Rarely__ 8h ago
And again, only women show support.
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u/Decodaku FUCK ICE FREE PALESTINE CRASH INTO ME 6h ago
Men will never use their power or influence to criticize the patriarchy and rape culture if it means risking their image, its disgusting.
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u/Rarely__ 3h ago
I know. I met an older guy a few weeks ago and said we are living in a matriarchy.
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u/BobbyD420 8h ago
Castrate them! That would be a better start. Then let them write their silly ass essay. Disgusting behavior by the all involved.
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u/ShirtuShanks 8h ago
That’s MY Princess Vivi. Going to pick up where I left off with OPLA because I want to see more of this decent person.
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u/PensionMany3658 7h ago
I hope she gets cast as Ponzu in Hunter x Hunter when Togashi's healthy and can write again.
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u/Connect_Shame9644 I am so seated it deflated my bbl 8h ago
Charithra always standing 10 toes down for the right thing
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u/desirelineszs 7h ago
I’m sure they will all go on to lead very ordinary lives, when they deserve to be rotting in hell.
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u/kibbean 5h ago
i've been sick and devastated and feeling helpless since i read about this. the daily stories of violence against women, children, babies - of male predators who are more and more emboldened daily - are just wearing me down. beyond that. i'm genuinely fucked up!!!!
laws have never been designed to protect women. ever. they're scared of us, so they do everything they can to destroy us. i'm so sick omfg.
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u/Obj3ctivePerspective 8h ago
Was this another brock turner type situation?
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u/Frankyfan3 5h ago
Much much worse.
Even the guys who didn't show up, got a text invite to "free pussy" and did nothing.
They will consider themselves "a good guy", though.
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u/heartisallwehave Send me your address so i can visit you and explain my passions 1h ago
Yea, at least when two other men came across Brock Allen Turner committing rape, they stopped it, helped Chanel, and felt disturbed by Brock’s actions. None of that happened here with who knows how many men.
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u/Frankyfan3 31m ago
Carl-Fredrik Arndt and Peter Jonsson, the two Swedish Ph.D. students who found Brock "Allen" Turner assaulting an unconscious woman behind a dumpster, they intervened.
They are heroes. They also did the bare minimum. These aren't mutually exclusive.
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u/meli_lala 16m ago
The fact the university asked the men involved to WRITE ESSAYS as punishment for gang rape, instead of reporting them to the police? WTF. And there were more than 50 men in that group chat, but none of them reported it?
Gross.
Reminds me so much of that movie Promising Young Woman.
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u/killerkatt 8h ago
Name and shame them. Don’t let them get away with it.
Matthew Ingalls, Jonathan Newell, Winston Lee, Gillio Lopes, Diego Sarabia, Scott Norris and Scott Kretzschmar.