r/Fauxmoi • • 8h ago

TRIGGER WARNING Actress Charithra Chandran shows support for young woman raped at Cornell University: “It is never surprising to me how low men will stoop to hurt women. Certain men don't even consider women as people but possessions and objects for their benefit.”

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u/killerkatt 8h ago

Name and shame them. Don’t let them get away with it.

Matthew Ingalls, Jonathan Newell, Winston Lee, Gillio Lopes, Diego Sarabia, Scott Norris and Scott Kretzschmar.

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u/mochiwolke women’s wrongs activist 8h ago

this is them btw. they took turns raping her for hours and got away by writing an essay

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u/Beginning-Passion676 8h ago

They should sent to jail

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u/[deleted] 8h ago

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u/barefootcuntessa_ 8h ago

I know a lot of people have issues with A Promising Young Woman, but please consider exhibit A) 👀

Emerald Fennel said she purposely cast “good guy” types throughout the movie, men who had played sweet, goofy, affable guy next door types. Anyone if these guys could have been called I for an audition.

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u/b_needs_a_cookie 6h ago

There's a reason the rage and anger Carey Mulligan so aptly displayed, resonated with so many viewers. 

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u/Apprehensive-Fan7744 8h ago

God, seeing their photos is just bone chilling. They all look so nice and normal when they’re literal monsters.

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u/No-Cost-1764 6h ago

I think that’s part of the problem, we are bombarded by portrayals of evil as snarling shadowy figures when the reality is that monsters exist all around us. 

There are shopping malls that don’t allow unaccompanied young men to enter in groups, because of concerns about predatory behaviour. 

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u/andy87893 8h ago

Despicable scums. The fact that they just need to wrote an essay is 🤬

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u/Bunnywith_Wings 8h ago

Every one of them deserves the Brock Turner treatment.

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u/Frankyfan3 5h ago

Those are only the men who showed up to the assault!

There were others that received a text invite in a group chat to "free pussy" and didn't do anything to intervene or stop the assault.

Those men will tell themselves they are "good guys" because they didn't actually do the rape.

And the administration and PD and DA did what they normally do in these situations.

It's so much more than these sad pathetic chuds.

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u/Apprehensive-Fan7744 3h ago

Those men’s names should be published too. SCUM, all of them!

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u/HistoryBuff678 7h ago

We all know they used ChatGPT to “write” their essays.

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u/Abstract-Honeydew 7h ago

May they never experience another moment of peace in their entire miserable lives.

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u/Kill-me-quickly-TY 8h ago

Which ones were the expelled ones?

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u/anotherkeebler 4h ago

They did not get away by writing an essay.

Any suggestion that the university did not impose consequential punishments for those involved is false. A continuation of the false narrative that there were minimal consequences in this case is irresponsible, will make survivors feel less safe and supported, and will perpetuate the underreporting of sexual assault.

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u/YohanWinchester 8h ago

We should also shame the men in charge that thought "writing an essay" was sufficient punishment for rape. Predators in power protecting other predators

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u/JustaMuslimdude 8h ago

This like Brock Turner all over again.....😞

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u/haubenmeise did that faucet just have an orgasm 8h ago

Thank you.

Sincerely

Skeletor 💜

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u/BadgleyMischka women’s wrongs activist 2h ago

What about the group chat

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u/BadgleyMischka women’s wrongs activist 1h ago

Literal evidence.

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u/LunaLore_ 8h ago

She also included in the caption: let's extend responsibility to all those in charge that believe that the future of those criminals was more valuable than the future and justice of and for that young woman

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u/heartisallwehave Send me your address so i can visit you and explain my passions 1h ago

Any woman these men have harmed in the meantime is on their hands too.

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u/rmay14444 8h ago

Just preface I am a man, but I hope these men burn for their crimes.

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u/misimalu 8h ago edited 8h ago

I am a woman. They won’t. They never do. And it’ll happen again and again and again and again and again and again and again

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u/MeetKey6629 8h ago

Once the public attention dies down, which it will, because it always does, there won’t be pressure for any consequences. It’s the same song and dance every single time, sadly.

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u/The-Cosmic-Ghost 8h ago

The only justice in these situations is vigilante justice, but then most of the time the one doling it out gets a much longer sentence then the perps ever would

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u/misimalu 4h ago

Yup. There’s a reason they won’t televise the Luigi trial.

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u/rmay14444 8h ago

True, and it is unfortunate.

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u/barefootcuntessa_ 7h ago

Have you heard of the rapist Brock Allen Turner who now just goes by Allen Turner?

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u/Happy-Fennel5 8h ago

Everything will be turned around on the victim. It always is. People love to excuse rapists’ behavior and turn it around on what the girl/woman should have done differently. This is a particularly disturbing case, but I’m sure Cornell has many more rapists walking around unpunished. All colleges do (except for women’s colleges). I invite you and men you know who are angered by this to actually do something about it. You can start here: contact Cornell President Kotlikoff at (607) 255-5201 or via email at [president@cornell.edu](mailto:president@cornell.edu) and tell him what you think. Be vocal with the men and boys in your life who joke and degrade and humiliate girls and women. Don’t let shitty comments and behaviors go.

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u/cxnnate 6h ago

Completely agree

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u/zanoske00 8h ago

People need to remember women couldn't vote less than 100 years ago. They couldn't have bank accounts, credit cards. This was all done to keep them in check and under a man's control.

Equality and justice are young embers that need to be protected at all costs. There are no magic or invisible systems or barriers preventing people from committing evil at any time.

Do not take your safety for granted. There is nothing protecting you.

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u/CutieBoBootie 8h ago

Hell even in in like the 70s women couldn't make their own back accounts without a man present with them. My foster dad's father died and his mother had to have her brothers go with her to the bank so she could open an account under her name. 

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u/LilMissy1246 7h ago

Also, if I’m right, men were basically allowed to abuse their wives until like, 1993 (including rape). That’s pretty twisted. Women need to be taken more seriously when it comes to abuse. A lot of abusers/rapists get away with barely any time and it’s so fucking sad. That’s why women are so scared to speak up. There was even this story a while back (not sure if true as I read it in a comment) that a woman/girl was raped and went to officers to report it but they also raped her.

Don’t know the names of the people involved but it disgusted me.

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u/BadgleyMischka women’s wrongs activist 2h ago

It was totally legal to rape your wife up until 1996 in Finland.

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u/woahoutrageous_ 7h ago

The fact they posted it in a group chat and non of the other men reported them is terrifying

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u/innocentsalad his body was resisting the wheat 7h ago

They say “not all men” but when it came down to it it was all men

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u/BlondeBorednBaked 7h ago

Men will never undercut the power structures that benefit them to help women

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u/Alarming_Smoke_8841 6h ago

this. This this.

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u/Apprehensive-Fan7744 2h ago

I want those men’s names published too. Absolute SCUM.

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u/Alarming_Smoke_8841 8h ago

I have been so sick just thinking about this since this came up in the news cycle. Just terrifying, horrifying, vile 💔

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u/applesandbananananan Google lied to you. 8h ago

Same. Someone on threads (or was it here?) really put things in perspective when they said consensual sex with a partner starts getting uncomfortable after an hour or so straight. Two to three hours, and you're rubbed raw. I can't imagine the pain she was in after 7-8 fucking hours. These monsters need to pay.

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u/Left_Cod_7174 8h ago

Does anyone know Winston Lee's Korean name? He could be going by that to avoid public scrutiny

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u/AccusingGojo 7h ago

He's apparently in the Korean army now

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u/elloitsmeadele before we get married i gotta go fuck this guy 4h ago

some cornell students have said he’s been on campus but hasn’t been seen recently

koreans have been contacting the ROK military about him so his army status hasn’t been confirmed

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u/heartisallwehave Send me your address so i can visit you and explain my passions 1h ago

Lee Win-Hyung, iirc. (Not 100% sure though)

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u/BlondeBorednBaked 8h ago edited 8h ago

I’m

ETA: googling rage rooms rn

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u/Rarely__ 8h ago

And again, only women show support. 

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u/Decodaku FUCK ICE FREE PALESTINE CRASH INTO ME 6h ago

Men will never use their power or influence to criticize the patriarchy and rape culture if it means risking their image, its disgusting.

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u/Rarely__ 3h ago

I know. I met an older guy a few weeks ago and said we are living in a  matriarchy. 

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u/BobbyD420 8h ago

Castrate them! That would be a better start. Then let them write their silly ass essay. Disgusting behavior by the all involved.

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u/AccusingGojo 7h ago

They can write an essay about their castration, i might read that

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u/ShirtuShanks 8h ago

That’s MY Princess Vivi. Going to pick up where I left off with OPLA because I want to see more of this decent person. 

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u/PensionMany3658 7h ago

I hope she gets cast as Ponzu in Hunter x Hunter when Togashi's healthy and can write again.

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u/PauI_MuadDib 2h ago

She was great as Edwina on Bridgerton! 

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u/Connect_Shame9644 I am so seated it deflated my bbl 8h ago

Charithra always standing 10 toes down for the right thing

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u/desirelineszs 7h ago

I’m sure they will all go on to lead very ordinary lives, when they deserve to be rotting in hell.

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u/SteveMightSay 6h ago

Thats my fuckin princess there!

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u/kibbean 5h ago

i've been sick and devastated and feeling helpless since i read about this. the daily stories of violence against women, children, babies - of male predators who are more and more emboldened daily - are just wearing me down. beyond that. i'm genuinely fucked up!!!!

laws have never been designed to protect women. ever. they're scared of us, so they do everything they can to destroy us. i'm so sick omfg.

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u/Obj3ctivePerspective 8h ago

Was this another brock turner type situation?

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u/Frankyfan3 5h ago

Much much worse.

Even the guys who didn't show up, got a text invite to "free pussy" and did nothing.

They will consider themselves "a good guy", though.

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u/heartisallwehave Send me your address so i can visit you and explain my passions 1h ago

Yea, at least when two other men came across Brock Allen Turner committing rape, they stopped it, helped Chanel, and felt disturbed by Brock’s actions. None of that happened here with who knows how many men.

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u/Frankyfan3 31m ago

Carl-Fredrik Arndt and Peter Jonsson, the two Swedish Ph.D. students who found Brock "Allen" Turner assaulting an unconscious woman behind a dumpster, they intervened.

They are heroes. They also did the bare minimum. These aren't mutually exclusive.

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u/FromHollandWithLove1 4h ago

Its a very common occurence in the netherlands nowadays.

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u/Infinite-Penalty-736 2h ago

Exactly. She is describing the president

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u/meli_lala 16m ago

The fact the university asked the men involved to WRITE ESSAYS as punishment for gang rape, instead of reporting them to the police? WTF. And there were more than 50 men in that group chat, but none of them reported it?

Gross.

Reminds me so much of that movie Promising Young Woman.

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u/jimdogg78 1h ago

Im sorry. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 that won't happen again.